Yeah, that isn't good.
Was it all the shops, or just the one local to you that did that?
Do you know of any really good machinists? Maybe you could have somebody make you the parts you need. Costly, but it is an option. Maybe you could have enough made to sell them and get some of your money back.
Maybe you will have to upgrade after all? Or even go with an automatic trans? Definitely not as fun to drive, and with the Pinto engine not as much off the line power, but you would be able to drive the car. And that might be the most important thing.
There is a product out there for the T5 shifters that moves them back, but it is billet and not cheap. I don't know if I have the site bookmarked or not, but I will check and see.
http://www.autoworksparts.com/billet_shifter_relocation_kit.htmAnother option with the T5 is the camaro/S10 tailshaft swap. But it comes with other issues to solve.
Or maybe you can find a whole Pinto trans with a decent shifter. Advertise here would probably be the best place. Although that might only be a stop gap until that shifter has problems. We are dealing with almost 40 year old parts here.
How about putting a 302 and trans into that car?
Joke, I know you probably wouldn't want to do that even if it would fit.
I am glad now that my car didn't have the Pinto trans with it. Makes the decision to go T5 much easier for me. More costly up front, but better in the long run. Since it is a Mustang trans the odds of having parts available for the rest of my lifetime are pretty good.
Russ