LOL, while I prefer flat flange collector hookups I have had a slip on ended Hooker header on my Mustang II/Pinto like forever and never any leak at all. Used them 100% of the time on bikes as well and no leak at all. On car you must have some form of resilience built into at least the first exhaust hanger/mount after the collector or engine mount flex will quickly leak the joint. I've been known to mod or add slots too for better seal.
Rule of thumb as someone just suggested, give up wave tuning if you run a full to rear wheel exhaust system. You CANNOT wave tune that. Personally, at our shop (early '70s-early '80s) we considered both Flowmaster and the at the time highly favored 'turbo' type mufflers to be crap. Back then our favorite was no tailpipe setup at all and using big core header collector mufflers alone. Short enough you could easily get some wave tune benefit out of them. In fact I took a small cubic inch AMC built to spin pretty high and had it buttoned to a latest trick 2 1/2" dual piped dual turbo muffler setup, it ran like a dog after the initial engine break-in with open headers. Ran in the high thirteens capped up at the strip or horrible. Car felt dead as a doornail, wouldn't hardly break tires loose. Came back home and immediately cut all pipe off to put on Thrush header mufflers with 2 1/2" cores using same headers. Next run after that car was busting off 12.50s same day (on regular hard rubber street tires) and no other changes, car felt like motor found another 75 HP and an honest to God powerband now. Traction became a huge problem and leaving at 2500 rpm. Motor before not wanting to go over 6000rpm was now revving cleanly to 7500. Tailpipes absolutely destroy small inch high rpm predisposed engine tuning. Bigger motors the same just a bit less depending on how radical the cam timing was.
You can only wave tune when you have your tuned length and must have zero pressure atmosphere pretty close to your figured tuned length, start adding tailpipe length and the more you do, the more that tuned effect goes away. Pipe length destroys wave tuning.
'The wave tuning is well beyond the average persons ability to measure and tune to great effect.'
Measure? Can't without some form of statistical measuring. Tune? Oh, yes you can absolutely make it better. You can wave tune lower rpm as well but that usually lowers upper rpm power and we Americans are very greedy, we want all we can get. Pretty much all your FI PCMed cars now use wave tuning in the intake manifold lengths, much of it geared toward low to mid better result, you can tell by looking at the length of the individual runners. It helps at the lower rpms found using overdrives on modern transmissions. Or better mileage. And now many actually use variable cam timing and intake runner volume changes to gain low to mid as well as ultimate top end power. Like having cake and eating it too.