No he has never talked to me offline about this. My side.....Dad has a sudden heart attack and passes away. It is Wednesday before Memorial Day and we have to get everything done and in a hurry. The following Tuesday I go New York for a week back home for 2 weeks (still tying up stuff with Pops passing) and then gone again for 10 days all because I am a GI. He wants to bad mouth me go ahead, I serve for him to have that right. I will not bash him, just refuse to send him the money now that I am back in town and not stressed with obligations.